"How Do I Respond to My Partner’s Difficult Behaviour? "

"When experiencing strong reactions to a partner’s behaviour and doubting the relationship, how do I determine whether the response comes from ego or understanding? Rupert says: ‘There are two possible sources of your reactivity . . . One is an egoic, emotional response . . . The second possibility is that your response comes from love and understanding . . . And likewise, there are two possible sources of your partner’s behaviour. One could come from the ego in her . . . Or her actions could be an expression of love or understanding . . . What you have to see clearly is where your reactions come from and where her actions come from . . . Be courageous, just totally open and honest . . . If your relationship is grounded in love, then it will stand this upheaval. In fact, it will grow and deepen.’"

From event 12 - 14 December, 2025 The Shining of Being – Online Weekend Retreat at Home, 12–14 December

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